Tropical Vanilla

45ml Tondeña Premium Rum
60ml Del Monte Pineapple Juice
60ml Royal Orange
15ml Lime juice
5ml Del Monte Fresh Vanilla Syrup


shake all with ice and strain into glass with ice. Garnish rim with pineapple slice.

Have you ever??

Have you ever felt like you knew someone a long, long time ago? Another place, another time, a friendship of the souls?Two people who share a bond for reasons neither know, A feeling that they were friends, a long, long time ago?Did they stumble onto each other by pure circumstance,Or was it fate and destiny that played a certain hand? Two souls intertwined, they are worlds apart,But the soul, it knows no difference, in matters of the heart. Somehow they are drawn together, fate has brought them back,Each living worlds apart, they journey separate paths.When this life is over, and a new life begins,Their souls will find each other, two souls that we call friends.

Bohol Trip

Tomorrow afternoon my family will be living for Bohol for a vacation. We're going to stay there for almost a month. :D That's neat.. We'll my ancestral heritage is from there so we really don't have a problem on accommodation. The only expenses that will incur is our food, airfare and pocket money. Thats it.

For those of you who are unfamiliar with Bohol, it is located in Visayas near Cebu. The famous white sand beaches in Panglao Island,(there are a lot of white sand beaches in bohol that is not commercialize) Chocolate Hills, Loboc River, oldest church and many others are the famous landmark in our province. We have also a version of Sinulog which is known as Sandugo Festival which is held also every January.

The beaches of Bohol is truly a paradise. A natural wonder with powdery white sand and shallow clear waters. It is a solemn and peaceful place. Where you can unite with nature.

This is one of Bohol's finest forest in Bilar. A must see..



I always love this place because its so laid back. With friendly people, very good food, nice scenery and of course for the simplicity of life people are showing here. But, mind you even if this place is simple its not that left behind. There are also cable channels, internet shops, wi-fi spot, a tiny yet posh mall with a huge parking lot. Everything is so accessible here.

From Manila the flight to Tagbilaran(city proper) takes 1 hour and 45 minutes only. Either by Cebu Pacific or Air Philippines. I'm not sure if Asian Spirit still operates there. But there's no harm in inquiring 'ayt? You can also travel by a ferry. Either by negros navigation, super ferry - this two is direct to Tagbilaran port, or sulpicio lines via cebu port. Don't worry taxi's and hotel services are available in Bohol.

So there. I will post my pics soon so watch out..

My travel advisory tip: DON'T FORGET TO
1. Bring bikini's of course (LOL)
2. sunblock
3. Mosquito repellant or anti-mosquito lotion
4. digi cam/video cam
5. loose bills
6.preferably a globe sim because some area don't have a smart/sun signal
7.comfy clothes and slippers.


Check out their website if you wanna know more about my home town.

gotta pack now..

Pinay Sex Scandal

Almost everyone are hooked into making a sex video through their mobile phones. One way or the other the pinays on the video is either clueless that they are being shot or they knew about it and they just don't care. What's up with this people? I don't have anything against this people. I mean its their life and its not my f*cking business right? But, its unethical. it seems to me that women are exploited and are being fun of. Women became a disgrace in their family when it explodes big time in the world. And the men takes pleasures and feel manly that they had sex with this girl and yet got the guts to spread out their deed. Come on you guys you have a sister, a mother and a daughter, a female cousin perhaps to think about. Perhaps before you take pleasure in shooting your deed with your partner. Ponder first about the consequence of saving or spreading such item through your mobile phone.

What I am trying to say here is sex should be kept between the two of you and not for the world to see. Please also take into consideration the girls feelings because more often than not it is their faces and naked body that is spread like wildfire on every mobile phones and the only share you got was a shot of your d*ick and your hands and nothing than that. If you are man enough why don't you show your faces so that the humiliation later on will be even! Think about that!

***I'm sorry people if this post is not what you expect to see or to read. I am just disgusted with what I saw in the internet lately!

There's no harm in earning an extra dough

Last night I've got an offer from Sponsored Review to write about something. I was thrilled when I really saw the offer. I thought my blog was declined long time ago and yet they are the one who gave me my very first break in creative writing. So I, gave it a shot. The offer costs only 5usd. I know that it's a low deal but what the heck. Money is money. I just hope that they will like my entries and approve it so I can claim my rewards after. ^_^


So what do you advice on a novice like me? Share your pro tips pls..

Monique Lhuillier on Project Runway

This morning I saw Monique Lhuillier as a guest judge on Project Runways season4. She really pulls it off.. She looks glamorous and sophisticated along with Heidi Klum and other guest judge. By the way to those who don't know her she is one of the hottest designer in Hollywood today. One of the pinays who conquer tinsel town to stardom.

You go girl!

Proudly Pinoy

Yesterday, I came across with a blog site through entrecard. The blogger really describes the Philippines not only as the Text Capital of the World but as the Blog Capital of the World as well. Which is true for that matter. In fact there are a lot of good Filipino bloggers worldwide who are earning recognition through their blogs. By the way the blogs name is "For Singapore's Entrepreneur Only." Funny as it may seem that a Singaporean take pride into acknowledging and citing us pinoys to his blog. It is really cool and rare to my eyes. The praises that he wrote to his blog is really heartwarming and genuine. Imagine getting a good feedback from a foreigner this days is really a BIG THING. It's a reflection, a mirror that reflects everywhere. I hope there will be many people who will reciprocate this kind.

And truly we are very much proud to be PINOYS!

Thank you Mr. Boss and hats off to you!

Your key to financial independence

We are wishing and dreaming that someday we will be as big as those tycoons that we often heard and read about in the newspaper. Like the famous clans who have now a hotel empire, a clothing empire and many more. We often wonder how in the world they did that. Well, many people will tell you hard work and connections of course. But some other businessman starts up so low as in the very bottom. We may call them crazy but they have the guts to chase their dreams. Since many of us our dying to open up our own business and yet we don’t know where to begin. I am going to tell you how to secure your financial independence you’ve been waiting to happen for so long. First, you should see to it that your business is your passion. Second, think of your target market. Thirdly, you have to assess yourselves about your financial capability if you can really afford to put up your dream business. But what if you can’t afford it? Who will you run into? Who in the right mind will lend you money? Here is my answer: America One Funding, is the largest loan broker in the USA today and they are offering NO COLLATERAL and LINES OF CREDIT. This company offers faster approval of your loans and you don’t have to risks your asset just to get your loan. How cool is that? Plus you don’t have to wait that long for you to get the cash that you need. They will be gladly to assist you all through out the process. So you people will ask, what in the world is the line of credit? Well for some who are unfamiliar and new to the trading business a line of credit is a type of credit in which a bank or a funding firm will undertake to provide credit to a client during a predefined period. The client may either withdraw the credit amount all at once, or make a certain number of withdrawals during the specified period.

So there I guess I answered all the queries that you have right now. If you have further questions just drop a line at America One Funding and their staffs are available for a free consultation.

Sinulog sa Sugbu

Sinulog is a dance ritual performed in honor of the holy image Señor Santo Niño de Cebu. It is danced by moving two steps forward and one step backward in sync with a primal drumbeat provided by a band.

The annual Sinulog Festival in Cebu is one of the biggest in the Philippines: a week-long spectacle of Catholic masses, processions and concerts, culminating in a grand parade of costumed dancers and accompanying floats depicting the different periods of history behind the development of the festival.
With radiant faces all over people from all corners of the world go gaga over this festivities. It is the most awaited feast every January. With a colorful costumes all over, and participants dance gracefully to the rhythm. Everyone was fascinated by enchanting floats, towering higantes, and comical puppeteers. The sea of people don't mind the hot weather and all because everyone is having fun. There are also some bazaar and souvenir shops that lined across the street that sells wide array of deli products. But people go there not only to party but to celebrate and to give thanks to Señor Sto Niño. Not minding the hundreds of people that flock the area, the excruciating heat, the stinky sweat, and the noise because thats what makes this event so great.

So what are waiting for? Don't just sit there, read and gaze all the pictures. Get your bags ready and join in the Cebu crowd, be a part of this feast, groove your body to the beat of Sinulog, and together we will shout Viva Pit Señor.

Dad got home

My dad got home from his work today. And when I saw him I saw disappointment in his face. I am so humiliated that i just give him a timid smile. I know what my dad is thinking he is thinking that he is a failure in the fathering aspects of his life; raising his family alone. Its very hard for him because he is the only breadwinner in the family and almost everyone in the family depended on him financially especially me, being his first born, a graduate and a licensed nurse who is still a bum. Yes. A bum. That's a fact and a sad truth. He is expecting everyone to helped out but almost everyone just sits down and doesn't bother about their own future. On my part I can't do anything. I've tried looking for a job and yet up to now I haven't heard from the HRD of some hospitals that I applied. Oh hell.. Sooner or later I will end up in a call center because I don't have a choice. I have to work or I'll starved and grasped my way to survival. I've been a bum for a year now and its now the time to take in charge of my life and search my place in this world. There are times that I'm giving up and yet I'm still here. Maybe God has a plan for me. I just can't see and figure what it is. As for now, during my free time I do blog to pour down my emotions and somehow earns profit from it. I am now earning through google Thank God. But I haven't got the money yet because it need to reach a 100usd just to encash it. I am still searching for other options to earn money just to help myself.

To my dad,
I am sorry if I failed you. I didn't mean to. I wanna thank you for everything. I will give back to you and to our family everything that you did for me once I got my chance in the world. I promised myself not to get married until I've given you what i truly desire for our family to have. A decent home, a small business, and a happy and relaxing retirement for you and mom. I love you dad. I hope God will continue to bless you because you were such a blessing to us and to others that you have helped. be strong and take good care of yourself..

-your daughter

Fixed Marriage anyone?

I was sleepless for almost 3 days because something bothers me. My mom wanted me to get married because according to her I am not getting any younger. Of course I knew that I am 29yo but that doesn't mean I have to rush in that kind of aspect in my life. But then again my mind won't let me sleep for the thought of it. I am frightened to that idea. Getting married with someone I just knew by his name and simple hi and hello stuff. We are not even friends. And besides I am not ready for the responsibility that binds with marriage. I wanna tell my mom right there and then to live me alone and let me decide for my own life. But I just smiled and shrugged it off..

Well, the silly idea began when Manang, our neighborhood bakery owner talked to my mom that she want me to be her daughter in law. WTF! really in my thoughts i wanna scream WTF! His only son who is a few years older is single also, has no gf and is not dating anyone. So that gave her a thought that we are on the same boat. What a crappy idea! I am not desperate to settle down and have kids. What's holding me was myself. I haven't achieved anything in life. I haven't reached my dreams. I haven't shown everyone my optimum potential. Damn! I just can't settle with someone if me myself isn't settled with myself.

For me marriage is not a joke and its tougher and involves really hard work and a strong mind and a tough heart. I just can't settle down because I have to. It should be because I want to and I'm in love. That's it. Since I am on the quest for my life maybe I'll meet my prince along the way through my journey! I wish!


---- to be continued...

My Puerto Galera Trip

This was our trip last June 2007 with my dear friends who are also nurses like me.. It was my first time in this beautiful Island I was amazed because it was near and accessible and a very near get away outside the metro manila. We actually took the trip after our licensure retake exam.. The place is very lovely, with white sand beach, and activities such as beach volleyball, snorkeling, banana boat ride, flying tsenes, a stroll to the jungle, water fall adventure and swimming of course. Our accommodation has airconditioned rooms, toilet and bath, mini kitchen, and a veranda. Believe it or not each of us spent only 2000php each ($50) including the roundtrip bus and ferry plus 5nights accommodation, plus food and water. Who says you need a tons of money to get somewhere? Whew! A very good stress buster indeed, to travel with friends!

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Manila Ocean Park (Philippines)

Manila Ocean Park will open its door soon in the Philippines. With hi-tech design and really cool amenities in just one stop place. Imagine being in a world of wonders that is very accessible and affordable to the general public with admission on the Oceanarium for 400php adult rate and 350 php kids rate. Cheap huh? The open marine habitat where people can explore the under the sea mode, seeing the fishes and other marine life just above their head is cooler as we think. It's like playing Ariel in Little Mermaid except that we don't have the tails. LOL! Oceanarium is open from 10am-6pm.




Plus... Plus... Having a wide array of the activities to choose from like shopping (it has a mall) Dining (they have a lot of posh restaurants). Or just stroll in their bay area wing where you can inhale fresh air with the remarkable view of Manila Bay. And many more activities for the children and child at heart. I'm sure I'll be frequenting this place soon. It's my new form of relaxation from my so so stressful life. I'm sure many people will go there once it will open its doors to the general public. After all its the coolest place to be. The hottest thing about is its just around the corner. And in we don't have to travel internationally or to subic just to see something like this.




By the way the much awaited opening of the park will be this Feb. 15, 2008. See you there!





Here's their address:
Behind the Quirino Grandstand Luneta, Manila, Philippines
Tel: (632) 4000604, (632) 4000681, (632) 4000691 Fax: (632) 4000732

Britney Spears Battle

I am a fan of Britney Spears when she started her singing debut in Hollywood. I followed her every move, dance steps, singing prowess. She was a hit. Being pretty, blond and sexy and young. She was a teeny idol. She has a lots of fans worldwide. The her career took off and her album sky rocketed and then she got married have kids and bam! She actually got married and had a divorce on the same day. She just change her mind. And then she married again in the name of kevin federline her dancer and got two kids with her and then bam again. Due to some unresolved differences they filed a divorce. And now Britney attends the court for the neverending custody battle of their two kids. Now it seems that Britney is troubled. Is that what accompany fames and stardom? She can't get hold of herself and her future is very cloudy that she herself can't see the end of the tunnel. She is destroying herself and people especially the paparazzi are pushing her in the quicksand. It seems that watching her fall gives them the satisfaction and bring them food to their table. We should stop taking joy with her demise. She needs our help and prayer. We need to live her alone so she can figure out her own life and tracks it back again. She is a 26 year old young mom. With lots of money and power to change her world for the better. Let's give her a chance and space. AS for now she is lonely, being alone in that big big house without her kids is lonelier than ever for a mom. She has no friends or shall I say a real trusted friends. Everyone around her digs her out till she bleeds to her guts. Everyone wants a piece of her. She needs a support group, a doctor and her family the most.
All she has now was her dog and her boyfriend paparazzi. She just want to be loved and be cared. She is settling for less because she has no one to count to, no one to talk to. Let's hope that all this drama will end soon. Before everything will be too late for the pop princess.

alone on Valentine's Day

Since it is mid January and Valentine's Day is fast approaching. I might write my thoughts about it now. Before I forget this rumble rumblings in my head. Being a 29 year old grown woman it is pretty unusual to see someone at my age to spend valentine's alone. Usually women my age got a boyfriend, a husband, a life partner or whatever you may want to call it. As for me I've got no one to spend it yet. I have no plans as of now. I am still hoping that cupid is just around the corner ready to struck my Mr. Right with his arrow. But even if cupid fails to show his presence I still will not contemplate because valentine's is just an ordinary day for me. People always think that in order to be happy we should associate ourselves with someone. Is it really the key to total happiness? I guess not. I maybe alone but I can assure you that I am not lonely. I still got my friends, my family and my niece and nephews. I still enjoy being myself and spending time with myself. I maybe introvert at times but it really takes an effort for me to get involve with someone especially in this day and age that women should be smart enough to choose their life partner or end up sorry at the end. I've been figuring out why I am not committed since my last relationship. I've been fishing my thoughts on rationales but this are the only reasons I got: 1. I am nowhere to be found but our home 2. I am nowhere to be found but home and 3. I am nowhere to be found but home.

Hmmn.. You might wonder what on earth I am doing at home? Where I could have gone somewhere and discovery new things in life. I've got plenty of reasons why I am home. Don't you worry I am not pregnant nor nursing a baby. LOL! I just stayed home because there is no place to go to but home.

Anyhow, if you yourself is alone on that day you can ask me out on dinner, just don't forget the flowers and the chocolates. LOL!

Let's track the invisible

Have you ever wonder if your friends in yahoo messenger are really off line or just hiding because they don't want to be reached or be disturbed? Now here is the perfect device to track them down. Let's haunt them down to see if they are lying, ignoring our messages or just don't have the time in the world to say Hi!

Click here to see if what I'm saying is true.

Manny Pacquiao vs Juan Manuel Marquez II

As we all remember last 2004 ruled out by a draw. It was very controvercial during that time.
Here are the scores:
Judge John Stewart had it 115-110 for Pacquiao,
judge Burt Clements had it 113-113
and judge Guy Jutras had it 115-110 for Marquez.
The Associated Press had it 113-113.

People had thought that Pacquiao had and edge on this battle after 3 consecutive knock outs over Marquez. But Marquez showed his willingness to win and give a great fight as well. The crowd was on it's feet for an exciting battle that saw Marquez rally his way as the fight went on to close the gap on the score cards. It was one of those fights where both men came out like winners because of the heart they showed in the battle.

And now our most awaited rematch is here. The 2nd battle of the two living legends will be held this coming March 15,2008 at the Mandalay Resort & Casino in Las Vegas.. I hope Manny will won this fight. I am a great fan of him. He put so much heart, dedication and hard work on his career. It really shows on him the zest to win.

GO MANNY!

Mac Book Air

The World's thinnest notebook that will hit the store by storm. Mac has recently launched their new baby but this will be available in the Philippines sometime February or March for only $1799 or almost 72,000 php. From a slimmer hard drive to strategically hidden I/O ports to a lower-profile battery, everything has been considered and reconsidered with thinness in mind.
Here are the few specification:

Height: 0.16-0.76 inch (0.4-1.94 cm)

Width: 12.8 inches (32.5 cm)

Depth: 8.94 inches (22.7 cm)

Weight: 3.0 pounds (1.36 kg)

13.3-inch screen that is backlit ready
wi-fi and bluetooth capable
Intel Core @ Du0 processor
Built in speaker and microphone
Analog audio output/headphone out (minijack)
Built in camera
80gb parallel ATA
64gb solid state drive
lithium polymer battery that runs for 5hours

Well, I must say that technology doesn't come cheap and if you want the top of the line products might as well invest on a reliable products such as this one.

Visit their website to check out the nearest apple store near you.

Appletoe

When me and my cousin visited Hongkong last November 2007 we came across this sidewalk food vendor near Mongkok Station. My cousin bought this salad that is according to her is yummy since she frequented Hongkong tons of times. I was apprehensive to buy because this salad costs 10.00 HKD (70.00php) and that to me is already expensive for some sidewalk vendor. Anyways, i tried it knowing the walkaton that we have to endure later on for our shopping. I just bought it so my stomach has something to digest while we discover and venture Hongkong. And truly it was so delicious you cannot actually distinguish what's inside because of its white coating that looks like sour cream or whip cream. I've figured the recipe according to the taste of it and I will share this to you and for sure you now have a clue of what it is made of? :D

I've made a version of this during the holidays. And i call this:

Apple toe Salad:
6 apples cored and peeled and cut into cubes
4 boiled potato peeled and cut into cubes
3 eggs sliced
1 kiwi fruit sliced
2 strawberry sliced
1 1/2 pack mayonaise lite (I use this because I can't afford sour cream nor whip cream)
salt to taste

mix the apples, potato, eggs and mayo then garnish with kiwi and strawberry. Chill before serving. This is good for 4-5 persons.

Bon appetit! Ü

How to earn online: Money for Bloggers

I never really thought that its possible that you'll earn just by writing your hearts content in the net. Being an skeptic as I always am, I didn't pay attention for those things thinking that its just all craps and scams. But after doing my own research and joining forums and other stuff voila information open its doors to me.. Everything is possible nowadays. All you have to go is maintain a good blog

Hottest buzz in town

Asus Eee PC-L

This is the new talk in town especially among students and techie people imagine an ultra mega portable device that is super cheap. You can afford this Asus Laptop for only 17,000-20,000 php. Talk about cheap and affordability that every conscious Pinoy spender thinks before purchasing such items. And it's not only lightweight in your pocket but also in kilograms. This baby weighs less than a kilo and comes in two colors: black and white edition only.

Here are the specifications that will make you drool and will make you run to the nearest computer shop in town..

Intel Celeron -M 900 MHz

4 GB SSD Hard Drive

7 " WXGA (800x480) Color Shine LCD

1024 Mb DDR II SD RAM

Web Cam In-built (0.3M Pixel)

Linux Operating System , Compatiable with XP

Display	7" Active Matrix TFT (800x480) ASUS Splendid Video Intelligence Technology
LAN, Wiless NIC ,	10/100 Mbps Ethernet WiFi 802.11b/g
Interface	1 x Headphone-out jack 1 x Microphone-in jack 1 x RJ11 Modem jack for phone line 1 x RJ45 LAN Jack for LAN insert 3 x USB 2.0 ports, 1 x VGA Port Card Reader
Hard Drive	4 GB SSD
Memory Supplied	1024 Mb DDR II SD RAM
Speaker	Built-in stereo
Microphone	Built-in
Hi-Definition audio CODEC	Yes
VGA	Yes
Web Camera	0.3 M Pixel
Battery Pack & Life	4 cell (2.2Ah) up to 3 hours
Warranty	2 Years
Web Camera	built in
Dimension & Weight	W 22.5 cm x H 16.4 cm x D 2.15 -3.5 cm Under 1KG

Please take note that the memory of this camera is too low. But heck, if your on the go and doesn't need much programs this can be a great deal for you.. You can just store a few stuff like mp3, excel, words, internet explorer and the like.. This is highly recommended for the students.

Attitude is everything!

ATTITUDE isn't simply a state of mind...it is also a reflection of what we value.

Attitude is more than just saying "I can", it is BELIEVING you can.

It requires believing before seeing, because seeing is based on circumstances; believing is based on faith.

Attitude is so contagious, especially when we allow it to turn our doubts of the past into passions of today and set the stage for our tomorrows.

We have total ownership of our attitude. No one else has the power to alter our attitudes without our permission.

Our attitude allows us to become more empowering than money, to rise above our failures, and accept others for who they are and what they say. It is more important than giftedness, and is the forerunner of all skills needed for happiness and success.

Our attitudes can be used to build us up or put us down -- THE CHOICE IS OURS.

It also gives us the wisdom to know that we cannot change events of the past.

I AM CONVINCED THAT LIFE IS 10% WHAT HAPPENS TO ME, AND 90% HOW I RESPOND TO IT...

And it is with this state of mind that I REMAIN IN CHARGE OF MY ATTITUDE.

Cebu Pacific Piso Fare Promo

Today me, my mom and my niece hurriedly rush to Robinson's Galleria to purchase a ticket bound for Tagbilaran, Bohol for our vacation. Imagine paying a piso for an airfare? That's so cool and obviously cheap. To our surprise the ticketing outlet was soo jumpacked like a sardines because almost everyone wants to grab the chance of purchasing a cheapest fare for any domestic destination here in the Philippines. They're latest promo was called every JUAN(one) should fly. Piso fares are for limited seats only so I suggest you should check out the nearest outlet or visit their website Cebu Pacific Air.

Btw, even if its so crowded in their office its worth the wait, the travel agent was so nice even if she's so exhausted and all. She still manage to smile and to attend to every inquiry thats being asked to her.. Fly high Cebu Pacific!

WORDS WOMEN USE

:: FINE ::
This is the word women use to end an argument
when they feel they are right and you need to shut
up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman
looks - this will cause you to have one of those
arguments.

:: FIVE MINUTES ::
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five
minutes that your football game is going to last
before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.

:: NOTHING ::
This means "something," and you should be on
your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe
the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you
inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing"
usually signifies an argument that will last "Five
Minutes" and end with 'Fine.'

:: GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows) ::
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman
getting upset over Nothing and will end with the
word "Fine."

:: GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows) ::
This means "I give up" or "do what you want
because I don't care." You will get a "Raised
Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed
by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in
about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

:: LOUD SIGH ::
This is not actually a word, but is a onverbal
statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud
Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that
moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time
standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing."

:: SOFT SIGH ::
Again, not a word, but a nonverbal statement. "Soft
Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is
to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

:: THAT'S OKAY ::
This is one of the most dangerous statements that
a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay"
means that she wants to think long and hard
before paying you back for whatever it is that you
have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the
word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised
Eyebrow".

:: GO AHEAD ::
At some point in the near future, you are going to
be in some mighty big trouble.

:: PLEASE DO ::
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is
giving you the chance to come up with whatever
excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is
that you have done. You have a fair chance with
the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get
a "That's Okay."

:: THANKS ::
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say
you're welcome.

:: THANKS A LOT ::
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will
say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off
at you. It signifies that you have offended her in
some callous way, and will be followed by
the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is
wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell
you "Nothing".

ME!

It's not so easy loving me
It gets so complicated
All the things you've gotta be
Everything's changin
But you're the truth
I'm amazed by all your patience
Everything I put you through

When I'm about to fall
Somehow you're always waitin
with your open arms to catch me
You're gonna save me from myself
from myself, yes
You're gonna save me from myself

My love is tainted by your touch
Cuz some guys have shown me aces
But you've got that royal flush
I know it's crazy everyday
Well tomorrow may be shaky
But you never turn away

Don't ask me why I'm cryin
Cuz when I start to crumble
You know how to keep me smilin
You always save me from myself
from myself, myself
You're gonna save me from myself

I know it's hard, it's hard
But you've broken all my walls
You've been my strength, so strong
And don't ask me why I love you
It's obvious your tenderness
Is what I need to make me
a better woman to myself
to myself, myself
You're gonna save me from myself!

Detaching yourself from the experience

Don't cling to things, because everything is impermanent...

Detachment doesn't mean you don't let experience penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That's how you are able to leave it.

If you hold back on the emotions- if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them- you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You are afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails.

But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your head even, you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then you can say, "All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognize that emotion. Now i need to detach from that emotion for a moment."

Once you recognize the feel of those emotions, their texture, their moisture, the shiver down the back, the quick flash of heat that crosses your brain- then you will be able to say, "Okay. this is fear. Step away from it. Step away."

I thought about how often this was needed in everyday life. How we feel lonely, sometimes to the point of tears, but we don't let those tears come because we are not supposed to cry--we suppress our emotions. Or how we feel a surge of love for a partner but we don't say anything because we're frozen with the fear of what those words might do to the relationship.

Turn on the faucet, wash yourself with the emotion. it won't hurt you. It will only help. If you let the fear inside, if you pull it on like a familiar shirt, then you can say to yourself, " all right, it's just fear, I don't have to let it control me. I see it for what it is".

Same for loneliness: you let go, let the tears flow, feel it completely- but eventually be able to say, "All right, that was my moment with loneliness. I'm not afraid of feeling lonely, but now i'm going to put that loneliness aside and know that there are other emotions in the world and I'm going to experience them as well.

Detach....

Moving Thoughts

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

It's true that we don't know what we've got till we lose it, it is also true that we don't know what we are missing until it arrives.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the ONE that makes your heart smile.

Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

I hope this will helps you with your daily life and problem. Someone like you deserves better of things.

what hurts the most is your being ignorant to the reason of his/her behavior because he/she didnt had the heart to tell you frankly and you were left wondering what was the reason of that behavior.

The Ride

Welcome to the first day of the new year. I admit to being snuggled in my bed, deep under the covers when the clock chimed. I got out of bed, wished everyone a happy new year, then opened the door and stuck my nose out to make sure Old Year left and to let New Year in. He brings with him possibilities and in the next twelve months we shall see what Life, Love and I do with those possibilities. It's always a team effort. We don't always go in the same direction thru out the year, but at midnight on Jan 1, we always reach the same place. A new beginning.

Want to come along?

Happy New Year

I would like to take some time and reflect on the past year... it has been a year of change, and I predict a another year of change and growth, however, I have no time to reflect at the moment. I have some friends coming in from out of town, and I must go and dust and vacuum, yippee!

So until then, you can tell me about your past year... the good, the bad, and the ugly... funny how time flies. Time does that... it waits for no man or woman, so I must scurry along.